Is self-absorbed the same as selfish?

A selfish person wants everything for themselves, with no thought for the needs of others. Self-centered people tend to not only be selfish but also egotistical and self-sufficient. Someone who is self-absorbed is preoccupied with their own interests, feelings and experiences, too much so to listen carefully to others.

What is the difference between self-absorbed and narcissistic?

Narcissists believe that they are smarter, more important, or better than others. Someone who is self-centered may crave attention and find ways to bring the focus of others to themselves, but they are also capable of listening to others, says Henderson.