Start with “hi,” but give it a spin. Saying hi and introducing yourself is polite, easy, and effective—and youd be surprised by how few people actually do it in their online dating messages. But instead of just saying “hi,” “hey,” or “hello” like everybody else does, make things interesting.

What do I say first in a chat?

Comment on the weather.Ask for information. A great way to start a conversation is to ask for information from the person you want to talk to. Pay a compliment. Comment on something pleasant. Introduce yourself. Offer help. Mention a shared experience. Praise the person. Ask about them.More items •26 Jul 2021