Sometimes a reason that you have a hard time getting over someone that you never really dated is because you dont give yourself permission to grieve them. People that we never “date” can still have a significant effect on us. You dont need a label or a long time to develop strong feelings for someone.
Can you get over someone you never dated?
As strange as it might sound, getting over someone you never dated, according to experts, can be just as hard as a breakup. You can experience similar feelings: grief, sadness, frustration, rejection, disappointment, and fear.
How do you get over someone you werent even dating?
Allow it. Cry, journal it out, look after yourself physically, surround yourself with positive people, do things you enjoy - all the things you would do if you were going through an actual breakup.
Will he come back after I walk away?
In short, yes, it should get him running back to you. However, it is all dependent on his feelings towards you and the severity of the situation you find yourself in. On the other hand, if this man does have feelings for you, even if they might be hidden, having you walk away will make him come straight back to you.