You keep attracting married men because you are sending the message that you are open and willing to deal with their BS. You are right in that a man that is separated is still a married man. Men will approach you when they feel you are an easy target.

How do I stop being attracted to a married man?

Even if you enjoy a little bit of banter with your married crush, here are some ground rules so you can manage your flirting:Avoid texting and calling. If he has your number for work, respond as succinctly and coldly as possible.Mention his wife as you talk with one another. Dont touch as you speak. Avoid alone time.2 Dec 2013

Why do I attract unavailable guys?

Consider that another reason you may be drawn to emotionally unavailable partners is that some part of you is also unavailable. Perhaps you consciously want commitment, but deep down you fear true intimacy, losing your sense of self in the relationship, or getting hurt.