In Japan, group dating — or goukon — commonly happens first. Its a way to gauge mutual interest and suitability, as well as mix with a potential partners friends. You might think that this sounds low-pressure compared with American dating customs. But theres still plenty to stress about.

Is hookup culture common in Japan?

Japan isnt as much of a “bar” culture as most other Western countries are, however, there are a few. HUB is probably the most popular and prominent bar and is known as a hook-up place, even late into the night. It also has a higher concentration of English speakers and girls who like foreigners.