This is how Facebooks Secret Crush feature works: Select a list of up to 9 of your Facebook Friends that youre *interested* in. If theyre also on Facebook Dating, they will get a notification that “someone” (i.e. not you specifically) has a crush on them.

Is Facebook Dating private from friends?

Choice and Control: Facebook Dating is a dedicated space within the Facebook app, and we wont share your dating activity to your Facebook profile or News Feed. You control who on Facebook can see your Dating profile. Also, your Facebook friends wont know youre using Dating unless you choose to tell them.

Why is Facebook Dating not showing up?

If Facebook Dating is not showing up, you probably need to update the Facebook mobile app to the most recent version. Its possible to turn on automatic updates for Android and update all apps at once on iPhones. Check your Wi-Fi connection. Clearing the cache on your iPhone or Android device can resolve any conflicts.