Playful bantering or gentle flirting with someone outside of your marriage is harmless if proper boundaries remain intact, according to psychologist Michael Brickey, author of Defying Aging, and many other relationship experts. Difference of opinions even occur within a marriage.

Is it OK to flirt when youre married?

Flirting may be a fun and a subtle reminder of who you were before you got married, but remember this, you married the person you want to be with. You have the power to control your flirting, and its unfair to both your spouse and the person youre flirting with to take things too far.