There is nothing wrong with making it a goal to find a partner; however, that goal needs to be realistic, Josh Klapow, PhD, clinical psychologist and host of The Kurre and Klapow Show, tells Bustle. If you never look you may never find. So make the goal to actively look for [a] partner versus finding a partner.

Is finding love a goal?

But lets get one thing straight, first: Finding love is a phenomenal goal to set. So, congrats on acknowledging what you want in the coming year. After all, knowing what your priorities are is half the battle. Find a balance between looking for love and letting it happen.

Is finding a partner important?

Love is forever. If you find the right partner, youll have that same person to support you through all the crazy ups and downs, ebbs and flows of your working life. Youll have the safety and security of knowing that youve finally found love and that one section of your life is essentially taken care of.

What are couples goal?

What Are Couples Relationship Goals? The short answer is — relationship goals are the plans, dreams, and achievements you and your partner or spouse create for the life you want to build together. You have goals for your career or for your personal life.

What is an example of a relationship goal?

Spending more time together. Encouraging each other in individual goals. Loving each other unconditionally to create a lasting love. Building a future together.

Do you have to search love?

If you are looking for love, you will never find it. Searching for love does not work because love is simply a feeling. Though found love, one does not find the feelings associated with spontaneous love, but this love finds them. This love is what dictates your every action.

What are some long term goals in a relationship?

Below, take a look at some of the basic goals that can help maintain a relationship for the long-term.Decide On Connecting Rituals That Work For You. Agreeing On What Works For Your Sex Life. Helping Each Other Achieve Your Unique Goals. Having Firm And Clear Boundaries. Being Honest About Financial Goals And Practices.More items •24 Jul 2019

How do I write down my goals?

In every self-help book you will ever read there is almost guaranteed to be a section on goal setting. Why should you write goals??? Try to aim for less than ten. Link them to your vision. Set a deadline. Write them down in the right state of mind. Keep them in your wallet. Create accountability with some key people.More items •Jan 1, 2018