It can take anywhere from six weeks to three months to forever, depending on how intense the relationship was, how invested you were in each other, and how heartbroken you are, says Jane Greer, PhD, New York-based marriage and family therapist and author of What About Me? (Those three factors all sort of piggyback on

How do you tell if shes not over her ex?

10 Classic Signs She Is Not Over Her ExShe checks her notifications obsessively.Frequent mentions are one of the signs she is not over her ex.She wears that old T-shirt.Comparisons are among signs she is not over her ex.She drunk texts him.She still talks to her ex.She cannot bear the thought of her ex moving on.More items •Aug 27, 2021

How long does it take to stop thinking about your ex?

As for how long it takes most people to stop talking about their ex, its about eight weeks.