How often should you see each other in a new relationship?

For best results, meeting her one to three times a week is a great idea. This will ensure she doesnt feel suffocated and will maintain her interest in you. The biggest upside to this strategy is that your relationship will progress naturally and as quickly or as slowly as you both want it to.

How long should you spend together in a relationship?

The bottom line? Coan advises every couple to adhere to the 70/30 rule: For the happiest, most harmonious relationship, the pro suggests spending 70% of time together, and 30% apart.