But as things begin to cool off and settle in, you may have found yourself wondering if its normal for texting to slow down now that youre an item. Relax. The good news is, according to online dating coach and profile helper Eric Resnick, the answer is: Yes, its completely normal and totally healthy.

What is a normal amount of texting in a relationship?

Heres Exactly How Often You Should Text If youre married, live together, or see each other regularly, dont go overboard with texting, says Rob Alex, the co-creator of Sexy Challenges and Mission Date Night. Three times is plenty. Psychologist Nikki Martinez agrees, saying 3–5 texts per day is perfect.